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Writer's pictureJulie Lokun

Why Are Men Afraid To Ask For Help And The Rising Rate Of Mental Health Issues Facing Men


Guys-you are not alone. And You ARE NOT CRAZY!

In fact, you are a part of a community of men who have struggled with mental health issues for some time--and it is getting worse. As a collective, men are struggling more than ever.


What we know to be true is that when we are too macho, or too cool to talk about what we are struggling with life gets really dark.


Men and mental health is an important topic, as men are less likely to seek help for mental health issues than women. Some common problems that men face include stress, anxiety, and depression. Men may also be more likely to engage in unhealthy coping mechanisms, such as substance abuse. Social norms that discourage men from expressing their emotions and seeking help can also contribute to these issues. It's important for men to be aware of these problems and to seek help if they are experiencing mental health difficulties.



First responders, such as police officers, firefighters, and paramedics, often experience high levels of stress and trauma as a result of their job duties. They may witness traumatic events on a regular basis, such as violence, accidents, and death. Additionally, they may experience feelings of guilt, shame, and helplessness. These experiences can lead to a range of mental health issues, including post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), depression, and anxiety.


There are several issues with first-line responders and mental health. One is that they may be reluctant to seek help due to the stigma associated with mental health issues, and a fear of being perceived as weak or unfit for duty. They may also lack access to mental health services that are tailored to the unique needs of first responders.

Another issue is that often the work culture in first responder organizations does not prioritize mental health and well-being, which can make it difficult for employees to prioritize their own mental health.


Overall, it is important for first responders to have access to effective mental health support and for organizations to prioritize mental health and well-being in the workplace.



There are several reasons why men may be less likely to seek help for mental health issues than women. Some of these reasons include:

  1. Social norms: Men are often expected to be strong, independent, and in control, which can make it difficult for them to admit to experiencing mental health problems. This can also make it difficult to talk about them.

  2. Stigma: There is still a lot of stigma surrounding mental health, especially for men. Men may be afraid of being perceived as weak or unmanly if they admit to experiencing mental health problems.

  3. Lack of understanding: Men may not be aware of the signs and symptoms of mental health problems, or may not know where to go for help.

  4. Fear of losing control: Men may be afraid that seeking help for mental health problems will mean losing control over their lives.

  5. Lack of resources: Men may not have access to mental health services, or may not be able to afford them.

It is important to address these issues and to create a culture where men feel comfortable seeking help for mental health problems. This can be achieved by providing education, raising awareness, and breaking down the stigma surrounding mental health.


Guys-you are not alone.


Reach out to Chris or Kevin and the rest of the crazy crew if you are interested in sharing your story. The more we foster positive conversations about mental health the more we will destigmatize it.



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